The Sour Side of a Sweet Memory

Reminder: This post might not be suitable for soft-hearted people.

What is a memory? Well, thanks to my hard work, I've managed to get the right definition for the word 'memory'. Memory, according to the Merriam-Webster Online Dict. says that:-
"the power or process of reproducing or recalling what has been learned and retained especially through associative mechanisms"

Now then, let us go back to the topic, "Sweet Memories - Should or Shouldn't It be Remembered?"



Sometimes you sit down and recall, "weren't those times with (insert name here) enjoyable/fun-filled?" then ... you just break down in tears. (and no, this time, it's not from personal experience.)

Yes, some of you might argue that although you've cried, you still want to keep those memories. I've got a better view on it. Just imagine if humans were not equipped with those mechanisms, thus making us not being able to have memories. Don't get me wrong here, I'd cry if I had lost my memories. I mean, who is going to cook my favorite dishes? Who's going to tell me that "The Only Difference Between Martyrdom and Suicide Is Press Coverage" is my best song from Panic! At the Disco? But we're talking about sweet memories, my friends. Yes, once again, the ones above are also included under 'sweet memories' but I'm talking the ones you had with your loved ones, be it ex-loved ones.

Rather than debating the fact on 'should or shouldn't', let us all now put our memories into beneficial use and recall the last time we had fun with our cherished ones. Happy? Sad? Disappointed? Whatever? I don't know. But the fact of the matter is this: Most sweet memories that were recorded in a person's mind would make that person end up sad or in worst case scenarios, teary eyed.

Up till now, I want to thank you all for still going through this post. I hate going straight to the point. Scroll down if you're impatient, if not, simply hit 'X' at the upper right hand corner of the browser. Thank you.

Now then, I'm still not making a stand this time to whether we should or shouldn't have sweet memories as I know it's beyond our powers to not let ourselves have sweet memories. Instead, I'd rather focus on what could be done if it occurs and you feel like weeping again. Follow these simple steps, and hopefully you'll be fine in due time...

1) Recall again. Yes, I said it. Recall that memory again. (Don't ask why but trust me on this one.)
2) Tell yourself that you wouldn't have that particular memory again. (Sounds unreasonable but it's true.)
*3) If you're trying to move on, get a new one. (Simply means, fill your old sweet memory with a new sweet memory)
4) Talk to someone close to you.
5) Listen to good chill-out music. (My blog has heaps of them)
6) If you're still weeping, I'm sorry.

Now, I'd like to go back to point no. 3. I know some if not most of you will be thinking, "J.†.™ is psycho. How can you just wash away that memory just like that to be replaced with a new one? It's impossible!" Trust me, it is possible. Think about it, we go through so many incidents in our lives. Sweet memories happen all the time. The question is, "are you willing to let that memory come/go?"

Therefore, I'd still leave the question open on whether you people would want your "sweet memories" to keep haunting you. I wouldn't care if you're happy with your sweet memories, I'm just concern for those whose sweet memories keep souring their lives. Don't let that ruin your lives. Open up, think smart. Be wise. Don't let your beautiful life be soured by a "sweet memory". I wish all of you the best of luck for your upcoming days and if you're still trying really hard to wash that memory away, pray to God.

If you disagree with me on this topic (which I know you people out there would) send me a feedback. I truly (honestly) apologise if I have offended anyone during the course of this post.

Until next time, guys,





Currently plugged in to: Panic! At the Disco - I Constantly Thank God for Esteban